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164 Responses to “No Waivers for Domestic Violence Convictions”
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I got a dv charge that was refused by the DA without any conditions. That was my first and last arrest. I am in the medical field (have a Master’s degree) and would like to join the medical officer branch, but I am concerned because of this one incident I won’t be able to get a secret security clearance that is required for the medical branch of the military. Am I wasting my time trying? Does my arrest disqualify me from getting a secret security clearance? Mike
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NCCM,
By part miracle and part stubbornness I finally got my waiver. I decided to go active…but there werent any open billets yet. Is it possible that theyll change their mind on my waiver status? Granted I do nothing stupid to facilitate that.
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I got a dv charge back in feb 07 with my ex wife. I was arrested that night and went to court for it. The case was dropped as a NOLLE PROSEQUI by the Judge. Also i was arrested for driving on a suspended license but wasnt charged with a felony (just a misdemeanor once i came to court with prove of a valid license)…I tried to apply for the NAVY before but got no response back from the recruiter in 09. Now im going through the process again. Do i have a chance of getting a waiver for the DV? What can i do to help them consider me for enlistment?
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reply to NCCM(ret):
Thanks! I got all of the necessary documents, took the paper ASVAB test and scored a 94 on it, plus turned in my college transcript which shows me completing my AA degree plus credits for my BA degree. My recruiter is sending the documents up to Jacksonville for a waiver review. Hopefully they grant me a waiver so I can start the next process.
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NCCM(ret), my name is nick i am a 19 yr old male and i am trying to join the marine corps. I talked to a recruiter last year on dec 23 2010. Took the asvab tests in jan scored a 74. And we went from there. I had a few complications along th way due to medical history. The mental and medical history was all cleared up and i was on my way to MEPS in feb, 2011. I get to Meps and my packet already said disqualified due to my medical history. But i passed the physical and the general doctor recommended the medical waivers. I failed the eye test so i had to get a scheduled appt for march 2011. I passed tht but got back to meps and they said i needed another one. Now my recruiter has filed my waivers since then for my eyes and history of asthma. But its taking a while. He said my application was on pending status. I guess tht means we r waiting for a yes or no. But my real question after all that explaining is about domestic violence’s. Say if my waivers do get waived and i get accepted. I have had two juvenile domestic violence’s when i was 16 and 17. One was with my younger brother who was 14 at the time the other was for my stepdad. Both charges were dropped. I was wondering tho tht if i do get accepted will these charges be my next roadblock. I also have had a criminal damaging charge where i kicked a drywall wall in a foster home when i was fourteen. I was in foster care for ten yrs and i had a few runaways awol and incorrigible charges filed by my caseworker which most were dropped and some led to juvenile work detail i have:t had any adult charges whatsoever. I would really appreciate it if u could give me just a little insight about what u think of my situation anything would help. Sorry for all the reading. Sincerely nick.
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I talk to him weekly. Stuffs just so backed up at bumed.
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Well thats good news to hear. I check up every week he jus says im on pending status. Im gonna get a hold of him today and i’ll post another comment more explaining the situation i know i left out a few key parts . I appreciate it very much thank you. I’ll be back in touch
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If a service member of the marine corps was not arrested or formerly charged with DV but their case was taken before a committee and the committee decided it met criteria for domestic violence, how badly will this affect this service member’s re enlistment?
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Nccm thanks for the info my ssgt called me with good news and my waivers have been waived thru bumed and im ready to swear in. After 8 months of waiting. Now its time for the backround check i just paid all my juvie court costs and restitutions so now im just waiting for the ok on my charges but ssgt said they were nothing serious i appreciate the input. Thanks sincerely nick.
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The committee is part of the Community Counseling Center of our base. It is called the Incident Determination Committee. He was not arrested, but just now has “an incidence of domestic violence” on his record, so I was just wondering how badly it would effect his re enlistment if he has a spotless career otherwise.
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I’m looking into joining the Navy through the NUPOC program. I meet all of the prerequisites and am in the process of talking with a recruiter. The only thing I’m afraid that might disqualify me would be a conviction of DV 4 and malicious mischief 3 in a juvenile court 5 years ago. The situation was the accumulation of years of family problems and soon thereafter, my mother, who was the person who claimed I hit her, was convicted for DV 3 and numerous other charges dealing with my dad. I received a 12 month probation, which I served with no issues and my PO even told me I shouldn’t have even been arrested/convicted in the first place. The thing is, though, I was and now I have the records. Will these records prevent me from qualifying for NUPOC? Is there a possibility of getting them waived since they were juvenile convictions resulting around family issues? Please let me know!
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I am a woman, I have a domestic violence charge. I took a guilty plea because I was incarcerated and couldnt post bond and had a 5 month old child at home with my ex. He and I were fighting. He had hit me in the past, has charges for hitting me when i was pregnant. When we were fighting he had already hit me but his mother called the cops and was a witness for him. I needed to be able to take care of my little girl and be back with her so i said id take whatever so I could be with her faster. It was a misdemeanor charge. He and I are no longer together havent been for a while. I got smarter. But I guess there is NO WAY for them to waive this??? If there is at all could you please let me know. His mother was witnessing for him and I had noone there. It was bullshit. So now I am screwed.
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Hi,
I am 22 years old I got arrested for DV in 2008 when I was arrested I also got a vandalism charge. The vandalism was dropped. With out taking it to trial I took the DV charge because I was naive and was lied to by the DA so I took the DV. I have finished the court required classes and finished the probation sentence but my question is with this on my record does that indefinitely disqualify me from the navy? -
I was denied for the marine corps as is so do you think I’d be denied for the navy as well?
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Hello,
I was charged but not convicted nor did I serve restitution for vandalism and battery when I was 16 years old. I got into a fight with my sister, we both through objects in the house at each other. I received the charges on the same day. I spent many many weeks researching and being told that I was wasn’t going to get into the USN. I stuck through it, obtained a waiver, which was sent to legal at MEPS. Legal said that the waiver was not necessary because I was not convicted or adjudicated( serving something in lieu of being charged by a judge i.e fines, community service, ect.)However, I was interviewed by a CO, who judged that I was a proper candidate for entry into the USN delayed entry program.
I was honest with the CO, did not blame my sister for what occured, told him I moved on and am glad what happened occured because I now place speed bumped into play in my dealing with people. It was good to learn that at 16.
Now I am on my on my way to the Navy’s Nuclear Power program. And I am lucky and proud of myself. I advice all fellow NAVY recruits to be honest, to be respectful. The Navy has been around for 200 years, and it’s going to be there now, and when well beyond my death, if they don’t want a particular profile of person, there probably is a reason.
But I have to say that I got lucky. The circumstances surrounding my arrest were such that I had a chance of getting into the Navy. I was respectful to my recruiter and all those in the office, and I was patient. I was SO happy when I swore in. I grinned the biggest smile there was when I posed for my DEP picture.
Respectfully,
A Future Sailor
P.S: Thank you sir for advising me.
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I was arrested for DV about 4 years ago. By my now wife, she dropped it before it went to court so I never got charged or plead guilty. I also got arrested for Disorderly Conduct about 10 years ago and just had to pay a ticket of 300 dollars or so. Other than that, I have gotten a few no insurance tickets that are all paid up. Its been over 3 years ago. I was wanting to know if any of this could stop me from joining up for the army. I am in college as a BPA and a MBA I’ve been in for more than three years now and haven’t gotten into any trouble at all.
Also I did a back ground check with my local DPS and none of this showed up at all.
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So I should tell them every thing. The thing is I really don’t know how many traffic tickets I’ve gotten. The recruiter wants dates of arrest and I just don’t remember. I tried calling my local police and DPS office but they say they cant tell me. This puts me in a tight spot, I cant tell the recruiter the dates. Also would I still need a waiver is the charges where dropped unconditionally? The recruit said that he would have me join the ROTC program, would any of this get in the way? He said that I would be going in as a E-3, but im not sure if any of this would change that
Do to them not telling me the dates of arrest, I got the background check and they didn’t show up. Im not sure what to do know
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Thank you very much this is exactly what I need to hear. You where of great help to me. Again, thank you.
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I’m sure this question has already been answered however, I was arrested with assault and battery with my dad awhile back but my parents dropped the charges before I went to court….would this disqualify me for enlistment?
And if the military granted me a waiver, could they deny me at a later date due to my record
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Ok, Have another question for you. So, I was speaking with my local recruiter and I told him that I want to sign up for the army and that I was in college with 90 credits. He said that he could sign me up as an E-3 and that he would have me join the ROTC program at my university, after that be sent off to the Advanced Course by completing the Leader’s Training Course held at Fort Knox, Kentucky, during the summer. My question is why would he sign me in as an E-3 if I was going it to the ROTC and becoming an officer in less than two years (im a senior and would be taking the? I think that E-3 is enlisted not commission, and that would lower my pay grade from a o-1. But my main concern is why wouldn’t he just sing me up as an o-1 from the get go? I wouldnt have to go to boot camp going in as an o-1
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im an 18 year old who graduated last year and want nothing more from life than to join the service. but a charge is giving me a really hard time during the process.. my sophmore year i got a family violence charge. but im pretty sure it was differed. i got a waiver with the marines but it was disapproved.. does that count me out for all branches or can i keep trying? i dont want to give up.
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I was just convicted of D.V. but has been placed on conditions and when that is over my case will be dismissed. Is there any I can join the army after my conditions have been met and the case dismissed?
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Good afternoon,
I was charged, but not convicted with with DV. I was able to do the diversion program consisting of classes, community service and a fine. My question is, if there was no conviction due to the diversion program does it still fall under the Lautenberg Amendment? If it doesn’t fall under the Lautnenberg Amendment, can it still affect a reenlistment?
Thanks
Dan
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my childhood dream was to become a marine infantry i am 22 but i am un sure due to my record need a feedback i am in a tricky situation..
1 arrest for D.V proved inocense got paper form judge.
spent one day in jail.1 current restraining order againsted me for DV from ex girlfriend caught my ex cheating so she got an order againsted me and lied about me abuseing her. lost all my firearm rights for 6 months.
2 red light tickets , one seat belt ,driving with out insurance and tinted windows with broken head light fix it ticket.
misdemeanor urination in plublic ticket that i won.
i know the military finds every thing out about criminal and records during enlistment i would appreciate a good feed back.
no misdeameanors or felony’s but i have a record…
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sorry for adding my email it wont let me post anything if i leave it blank and i got my other blog mixed up for asking the same question twice.
okay and one more questions i am a little confused the restraining order is gonna be over soon ok when it expires i will not have no charges on my record. so it would still require a waiver? what is adverse adjudication?.
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i went to civil court for that matter no charges were brought upon me just a restraining order i am going to have to speak to a recruiter thanks for the feedback…
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I have a DV charge with criminal damage that happened to me when i was 14 and a vp charge. I had 3-4 other charges dont remember such a long time ago those were dismissed with predjudice. Im really interested in joining the army if i cant join the army i will be very disappointed. Im also a straight A student and a eagle scout. Whats the chance of getting waiver for a dv crimnal damage and do you think i have a good chance of getting one with all the good things about me? heres my email [email redacted] Oh and if one recruiting office place wont give me a waiver could i try other places?
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Would I be disqualified automatically if I have a battery against a family member and a disorderly conduct I never went to jail for it I went to court and had probation for 6 months and 20 hours of community service and im looking at trying to get into the marines
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I forgot to mention that I had gotten these when I was 16.
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Hello quick question, when i was 17 i was charged with domestic violence in the 3rd degree-Harassment. I was told by the marines recruiter that i would be wasting my time and his. Because any dv charge is and automatic dq. But there was no physical abuse just bad language, and now basically i got my 15 college credits for nothing and that i couldn’t join any military branch but the recruiter never sent a waiver off or anything he just looked at it and told me it was a lost cause. I need some advice of what to do? And how would i know if my charge will affect me or not?
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Also forgot to mention that I am now 21 and havent had any trouble since then. I just want to get into the marines i have been trying too for the past year and a half. I had problems with my asvab because i had to have a 50 and made a 48 or 49, but like i said have 15 college credit hours.
Chase,
I don’t have an answer for you. Based on what you are telling me, the recruiter should have submitted the court records for review at a minimum – unless there is local guidance that restricts certain types of past indiscretions from receiving waiver consideration.